Our life consists of relations - relations happening. We have divided relations - these human relations - into personal, interpersonal, and intrapersonal relations. See, what we do is create divisions to try to explain or seek to understand.
Here, with you, we are seeking to comprehend the truth about relations. So, all this conceptualization, all this planning or plan to organize this in words doesn't work. All we need to do is investigate this issue of relations, of our relationships, especially this relation we have with ourselves and with others, because this is what will also determine our relation with the Totality of life.
This contact I have with him or her is, in fact, an opportunity to comprehend what is happening here, inside me. This contact I have with thoughts, feelings and emotions, with memories and recollections that arise within me, is something that becomes a portal to a comprehension of who I am in this context of life and, therefore, in this context of relations. So, this relation with myself, this relation with others, this relation with life, is an opportunity to understand this vision of Totality, this awareness of the Reality of life.
Here, with you, we are investigating this, delving into it, telling you that, yes, there is a possible life free from this sense of "I," of the ego, and this represents a life where this relation with this moment is the relation with the Whole, it is the relation with God, it is the relation of Truth with Itself. See, it is not about this present element, which is the "I," in this contact with life that is much greater than this "I." It is the awareness of Truth that Life is the only Reality, and this "I" is an illusion.
So, these divisions in the attempt to find a path to peaceful, friendly, loving, happy relations, is something completely meaningless, since the only Truth of life in relation is Life in Itself, with Itself. This sense of "I," of the ego, no matter how much it adjusts itself to find a certain balance in the life of relation, there is still the presence of conflict, the presence of disorder, confusion, and suffering, because this element is contradictory.
This element, which is the "I," is an element that comes from the past, it understands nothing about this moment here; it is a set of memories, remembrances, and this contextualizes a present identity, but this identity is a fraud, it is an illusion. This sense of being someone is not real. Thus, your contact with him or her, this contact from the "I," no matter how great these adjustments for a better contact are, will still be conflicting, fomenting suffering, confusion, and problems.
Is it possible life free from this "I" and, therefore, a real relation with the other, a real relation within oneself, without this sense of "me," this "I"? See, we are talking about Life itself in expression, in its Totality, without this division - this is what we have called Non-duality here. The approach of the ancient Indian sages was though Non-duality, Advaita, the truth that the only present Reality does not have a second separate from it, apart from it; this is Advaita: "The One without the second."
A Real Life is a Life where God is present, and only God Is, that is You in your Being, that is the Real Life. So, your contact with him or her is the contact with Truth, with Divine Truth. If this contact is present, the truth of the relation is communion of mind and heart, it is the communion where the Truth of Love, the Truth of Life is present.
Looking at the present Truth of what is happening to you at this moment. See, the present Truth of what is happening to you at this moment, looking at this - it is not about theorizing what should be here and is not, what could be here and is not, how it should be but is not - looking at what is here, at this moment, what is happening to you, in you, at this moment, this is what reveals Something beyond this, beyond this condition, without any idea of how things should be or could be.
I say this because, in general, we remain in these ideals, these purposes. We do not remain with life as it happens, we remain with ideas of how it should be: this is where our greatest confusion lies. We cannot deal with the present moment, with life as it is, when we have concepts of how it should be, because we remain in a mental abstraction, in an ideal, in a model of thought.
Here there is life happening to be investigated, to be understood. For example, in this issue of relations: what I feel, what I think, what I am at this moment to be seen. A direct look at this is the change, it is transformation, it is the end of this condition. Thus, there is, for example, this issue of thought. What is thought? Note, all of this requires the presence of Self-awareness, and not theories, beliefs, concepts, ideas.
Here we are exploring with you this issue of this contact with ourselves, with the truth of what is happening to you, in your mind, in your heart. What is processed at the level of thought, emotions, feelings, and sensations, discovering what it is to look at what is present here. This sense of "I," which carries this idea of "mine" and "my things," is what we are investigating here with you, it is when we have an approach of what thought is.
Note, thought is a basic, fundamental element to be investigated, and we do not investigate this. Note that thought in you is a response that arises at this moment, due to a memory that comes from the past, and we are dealing with our human relations based on this; the basis of our relations with objects, situations, events, people, and with ourselves in thought.
But what is thought? Thought is this element present in us, which is memory. Every thought in you is the presence of a remembrance, a recollection, a memory, it is something that comes from the past. Thought is sustaining in us all kinds of confusion in our relationships, because internally, psychologically, we are suffering.
Human beings live and have been living for millennia in suffering. So, we do not know how to deal with this psychic suffering within us - anxiety, stress, anguish, the pain of separation, fear. There are countless psychic sufferings that we have and we do not know how to deal with them; and all contact that we have with others, without first having a comprehension of who we are and eliminating these internal states, will inevitably reflect within these relations.
So, what will be the truth of a real relationship with him or her? The truth of this relation is the presence of communion, of an encounter where Love is present. The Truth of Love present, due to the presence of this communion, in this contact with him or her, is reflected in our existence as Bliss, as Peace, as Freedom, and we are unaware of this, because we have not resolved this problem of the "I," of this "me."
Here, with you, we are exploring this issue of Spiritual Awakening. So, we are together investigating this issue of the Flourishing of Truth about ourselves. So, what is Spiritual Awakening? It is this awareness that Reveals the Truth of Life - and I say again: life is what happens in relations, there is no life separate from relations, life is relation. Our life consists of relationships at every moment, and it can only be real when the sense of the ego, of the "I," of this element that isolates itself, that separates itself and that lives in this impulse of self-centeredness, is no longer present.
So, we need to discard from life this illusion of this particular life of the "I," and this is possible when we learn to look, to observe, when we learn to become aware of what is happening to us here and now, in this moment. We are living within a consciousness, which is the consciousness of the "I," of the ego, of this "me." So, all our relations, all our relationships, no matter how good they are, no matter how adjusted they are, they are still relations in this self-centeredness, in this ego-centeredness, some level of contradiction, conflict, and disorder is present there.
Only when we become aware of the Divine Reality, the Reality of God, of That which is You in your Being, do we become aware of the true relation, of the true presence of Love, which is the presence of God. We are working to end this psychological condition of separate identity, of egoic identity. Here we are investigating with you how to have an approach to life without the illusion of this element that sees itself as an entity present in control, in choice, with private ideas, with personal thoughts.
So, you see, it is not about a better relation with life in this relationship or in this interpersonal relation. Here it is about the Truth of Life itself in expression; if It is present, there is no suffering, there is no confusion, there is no disorder. So, this contact that you have with him or her is not the contact that thought is establishing, it is the contact free of thought and, therefore, free of this sense of someone who thinks, who feels, who knows, who controls, who chooses, because the "I" is not present, the ego is not present.
The truth about this is that we spend our entire lives relating to people, also in this idea of being a person, completely alienated from the Truth of Real Life, because we are within a particular life, of a particular accomplishment, where this dream of this identity that sees itself separate from life is present. Here, the truth of this Divine Flourishing, of the Awakening of Consciousness is the emergence of a new Consciousness and, therefore, a new relation with life, with the other.
What gives us the basis for all this is Self-awareness, it is the revelation of what is happening here and now, with each one of us, in this moment. We were raised in that old model of trusting in thoughts, and in those thoughts are present those old ideas, those old beliefs about what should be, what could have been, how it should happen, how it should have happened. So, we remain in the realm of ideas, in the realm of theories, in the realm of beliefs.
Eliminating all of that is assuming Life in this moment, it is becoming aware of the beauty of life as it happens here and now, without this element that sees itself separate from life, having ideas, concepts, thoughts about life. So, what are we working together here? The Revelation of this Divine awareness, this awareness of God. What we really need in life, at this moment, is to learn the art of looking, as well as listening, perceiving, and welcoming this moment without this movement of the thinker, without this movement of thought.
Thought has functioned as a present element that creates a reality that overlaps life as it happens; functioning in this way, we are, thus, trapped in a condition of sleep, of dream, of unconsciousness, of alienation from life. So, when there is this listening, this looking, this perceiving without thought, this "I" does not come up, this element that separates itself, which is the ego, is not present. Then, there is a Revelation of That which is outside the mind, outside the thinker, outside of thought; it is when, in that instant, one understands the Beauty of life in its Totality and, therefore, the truth about this relation with the other, because there is no longer this "other" for this "me." This "other" is Divine Reality, it is the Reality of God.
A life in Intelligence, in Love, in Wisdom is a life where this Reality is present, which is the Reality of your Being. This is what we are working on here, with you, in these meetings. On Saturday and Sunday, we have online meetings - there is in the description of the video our WhatsApp link to participate in these meetings on the weekends. In addition, we have in-person meetings and also retreats. If this is something that makes sense to you, if this touches you on any level, in some way, here is an invitation. Leave your "like" here, subscribe to the channel and leave here in the comments: "Yes, that makes sense." Ok? And we'll see you. Thanks for the meeting and see you soon!