We find questions like these quite reasonable, and we're going to investigate them with you here: "How to deal with death?" - or the search, the quest to discover the truth of death. We think this is very, very reasonable, but when we look at life as it happens, and there is this fluidity, freedom, when you are not in any level of discomfort, friction, conflict with life as it appears, as it arises, as it flows, you don't ask these questions.
Notice that, it's always when suffering is present at some level: discomfort, pain, conflict, contradiction, problem - that's the suffering present - when this is present, these questions arise. So, you see, we're already here with you working on this issue. Let's investigate this a little here.
When do we worry about death? Is it when we're happy? When we're celebrating? When you're laughing at a joke, do thoughts of death come up? Do any questions like this come up for you, such as: "how to overcome the fear of death," "how to get rid of suffering," "how to find peace" or "how to find love"? What I want to tell you here is that all these questions will always arise as long as this internal condition in you is the condition of some level of emotional disorder, of thinking, feeling.
Is it possible to discover life as it happens, without the idea of how it should be? Because, notice, this is where this suffering, this discomfort, lies. The very basis of these questions, in this psychological background, is the movement of psychological background with this suffering, with this contradiction, discomfort, conflict, and problem, which is the basis for these questions. But it is precisely within this psychological condition that all this appears.
Here, with you, we are precisely investigating the end of this psychological condition. We don't need the answer we are looking for, an answer to it, because we are in conflict, in suffering, in internal disorder, and so we put ourselves in this search for an answer to life or death, or to situations, or to what we don't understand, to what we don't comprehend.
Once you discover the truth of flowing with life as it happens, without this psychological condition... Notice, this psychological condition, where conflict, disorder, suffering, and problems are established, is precisely the presence of the "I," of this "me." It's when you see yourself as someone present in life and are at some level resistant to life as it happens that these questions arise, these problems arise.
Here, together, we are working on the very end of this element, which is the "I," the " me." Let's comprehend this clearly. This element is nothing other than this very conflicting, psychological state of being; it is this that, in its confusion, suffering, and discomfort, creates these questions. To discover life happening without this element is to no longer have questions about what life is, what death is, how to overcome problems, how to overcome death, how to get rid of suffering, and so on.
Discovering the beauty of this encounter with life as it happens, without this element that sees itself as separate from it, resisting this movement... Yes, life is what happens, it has its own movement, but when you look at it from this old model, which is the model of thought, where you live within principles of choosing what you want and what you don't want, what you like and what you don't like, what you accept and what you reject about life, that conflict is established, discomfort arises, disorder happens, within you.
There is no problem in life as it happens, and the appearance and disappearance of things is part of life. Our idea of death antagonizing life, fighting with life, note, is an idea. It does fall within the principle of appearing and disappearing, but it's life as it happens. Everything that is here, now, undergoes change: it's here now and then it's gone.
This whole notion of time that causes us so much discomfort, which is where change occurs, this discomfort is not caused by change itself, but by this pattern of thinking that wants to give a fixed structure to life as it happens. So, we reject death, we reject the end of things, we reject disappearance. There's a whole movement in each of us, in this thought pattern, which is a movement of possessing and holding on and not allowing change. Thus, we're always in a vain attempt to hold, in an unchanging way, that which changes, that which, by nature, is already changing.
You can't hold on to anything, no matter how hard you try. Everything goes away, everything disappears, it's just a matter of time. When we have the time for change, that's not the problem either, but it's the illusion of thought resisting change. That's what underlies the problem, that's what underlies the psychological suffering in each of us.
A real approach to the truth about yourself will show you that all the suffering present in you is psychic. It is only thought that is sustaining this suffering, when it resists life as it happens, when it wants to control events, happenings, people, feelings, and thoughts; it is always the internal movement of thought, in this format of the thinker, of the experiencer, of the one who separates oneself to observe and is seeing from oneself, from what one can see. Invariably, it is always like this. It is this sense of this "me," this "I," evaluating, judging, comparing, sometimes accepting, sometimes rejecting. This is the particular purpose of this center, which is the "me," the "person."
Thus, every form of psychic suffering is that which is present because of this psychological model of being someone in life, in experience, in events, in what arises. That is why we are investigating with you here the end of this egoic mind and suffering. There is no separation between this mind of the "I," this egocentric mind, this model that looks from this illusory center, and suffering. As long as it persists, the illusion remains.
In India they have an expression for this illusion, for this psychological condition of affirming this identity; this psychological condition of affirming this identity in life, seeing oneself as separate from life, as the experiencer of what one is experiencing - one sees oneself as the experiencer and as someone experiencing it - this condition in India they call avidya. Avidya is a word for ignorance; the condition of illusion that sustains suffering is avidya. So, what is this illusion? What is this avidya? It is the presence of this egoic mind, this mind of the "I."
When you use statements like "my house," "my car," "my family," "my business," "my life," "my story," here we are before a particular vision, centered on the "I." We have life happening, but we do not have the truth of this "I" having these things. This idea of having, of possessing, is of controlling, of maintaining, of holding, of sustaining. So, this psychological condition of suffering is inevitable when life as it is shows itself. Things disappear, vanish, are taken away from this "me," from this "I," then suffering is present, then questions arise: "How to deal with death? How to deal with this 'losing' of the things that one has, that one possesses?"
Life at this moment is something that is changing. Nothing is permanent and nothing is sustained as thought photographs it. In us, thought photographs it, records and tries to give a fixation to this, to that, and to that other thing. What thought does is to construct a present entity, being the manager of all this, the owner of all this. So, this whole psychological condition of the "I" is one of control, of attachment, of domination; this is what the "I" calls love.
Thus, all suffering arises because of this, so-called, love. However, there is no such thing, it is just a nice name that the ego gives, that this "I" gives, that this thought gives to the things that it tries to give stability, security, with it. Thus, the psychological condition of the person is one of attachment. So, fear is inevitable, possession is inevitable, suffering is inevitable. There is no way to get rid of it. Thus, there is no such thing as getting rid of suffering as long as the sense of "I" is present, this ego remains, this mistaken view of life as it happens is present.
A direct look at your reactions will show you that these reactions in you arise from thought, from this model structured in the past, seeking to maintain its continuity, holding on to things, holding on to objects, holding on to positions, holding on to people, holding on to relationships so that they do not undergo changes, so that losses do not occur. The central idea is to possess, control, dominate and sustain one's own "I," one's own ego in these things, in these positions, in these ideologies, beliefs and also in these relationships between people.
So, all this concern about death is something that is present because the sense of "I" wants to maintain its continuity. Here we are inviting you to the awareness of your Being, to the awareness of Life, to the awareness of Love, to the awareness of the Freedom of your Real Nature, which is the Nature of God, where none of this is present. This is the Real encounter with Happiness.
That's why we have these meetings here on weekends, where we're with you on Saturdays and Sundays. These are online meetings on weekends. You can find our WhatsApp link here in the video description to participate in these meetings. In addition to these meetings, we have in-person meetings and also retreats. So, if this is something that makes sense to you, go ahead, leave your "like" here, subscribe to the channel, and please, leave a comment here: "Yes, that makes sense." Okay? And we'll see you. Thanks for the meeting and see you next time!