If there is one thing we need to have here, it is an approach to the truth of our relationships. What are these relationships, what are these human relationships of ours? The truth about this is that, for most of us, relationship is fear; it is fear because it is based on some kind of dependence, either physical dependence or psychological dependence. Some level of physical dependence is present in most relationships, as well as psychological dependence, and we do not know how to deal with it, because we do not know how to deal with ourselves.
Thus, the issue of human relationships, the basis for a free life within these relationships requires the presence of a vision of oneself, a clear and free vision, which is absolutely impossible while the model of thought remains intact. This model of thought established in us, as human beings for millennia, needs to be investigated.
We need Silence. Silence is something that becomes present when there is Freedom. So, without this Freedom to feel, to think, there is not this Silence. Without the presence of this Silence, there is no Truth of comprehension of our relationships. So, we are here with you exploring this issue of human relationships, it is a playlist here on the channel.
Life is real when there is Freedom. I repeat, Freedom requires the presence of this Silence. Only when the mind understands life as it happens do we have this vision or this awareness of Freedom of this feeling, of Freedom of this thinking; it is when relationships, which are these human relations, no longer offer problems. Otherwise, we are always within this offer of problems in our relationships, and this happens because thought is present. I am referring to this pattern, this format, this model of thought.
When, for example, you like me - notice what a strange thing is present here - the reason for this liking, you have no idea why you like me; you like me because I provide you with something for this pattern of thought, for this model of thought that is present in you, which is conditioned thought. In this pattern of conditioned thought, you want to be accepted, someone agreeing with your desires, someone appreciating you, praising you, acknowledging you. We call this love. So, you feel loved, that is when you like me.
What is the truth about this? Behind this liking there is a fulfillment, a satisfaction, an emotional, sentimental, intellectual accomplishment, or in this aspect of fulfillment or physical, sexual, financial accomplishment. So, from a psychological point of view, there is this so-called love, but notice, there is no truth in the thought. The moment I change with you, you will stop loving me, because I will not be fulfilling your expectations, your longings, your desires.
Notice how we function. So, you function like this, I function like this, the world functions like this. This is the absence of Freedom, it is the absence of this Silence, it is the absence of Love. When there is Real Love, which is Silence, which is born, flourishes in Freedom, this sense of "I," of the ego, in me and in you, is not present; then, in that moment, there is a real encounter with you, but you are no longer a person.
A person is a needy being, lacking, seeking fulfillment, satisfaction, and accomplishment in the other. All of this disappears when there is this vision of Reality, of Life, without the "I," without the ego. So, what is the truth of a relation or a relationship with the other? It is the truth of contact, of communion, of sharing Love, Joy, Happiness, this Silence, this Freedom, so there is no fear, there is no dependence, there is no search for fulfillment.
Here we are together investigating this. The work of the Awakening of Consciousness. The expression "Awakening of Consciousness" is the Awakening of this Divine and Real Consciousness. What is present as consciousness is in a state of sleep, of unconsciousness. This is how thought has worked in each one of us, this is the program, this is the model. We are responding to life based on this program, this model and, therefore, unaware of this entire process that takes place within us within these human relations, within these relationships.
So, human beings live possessing, controlling, dominating. The fear of losing this control causes suspicion, jealousy, anger, resentment, rancor. All of this is present in our human relations when this principle of the "I," of the ego, is present. The point is that we call this love - mutual dependence, the exchange of gratification, fulfillment, the exchange of acceptance - but when divergence occurs, and it occurs very frequently, we leave this relation for another one, from this relationship to the next, because we are internally insufficient, needy, unhappy, because we lack the vision of the Truth about God.
God is not a distant Reality, but a Reality present when the "I" is not there, when the ego is not there. Our love is the love that thought expresses all the time. Notice what we did with this expression: we used the expressions "love for the homeland," "love for the team," "love for the movie," "love for the book," "I love this film," "I love this book," "I love my team," "I love my country," "I love you." Yes, "I love all of this," but who is this "I" that loves all of this?
This "love" that I have for you, as we have just said, involves a lot of things for this love to continue to be present. So, it is the presence of the pleasure that you give me, that makes me love you, that makes me accept you, that makes me want to be close to you. But there is something involved in all of this that we are not aware of, which is the presence of this sense of "I," which is by structure and nature isolationist, separatist and, therefore, ego-centered, always interested in itself, in what will give it pleasure, in what will give it fulfillment, achievement, satisfaction, as we have just said.
Can we break away from all of this for a life free in God? A life free in God is a life free in your Being, it is when the sense of "I," of the ego, of this "me" is no longer present. It is when this common model of social culture, of the world pattern, is no longer present that there is the presence of Love, because there is a single presence, and this presence is there when the "I" is not there, when this "me" is not there.
So, my contact with him or her is a contact where there is the presence of communion, the presence of Freedom, the presence of Peace, the presence of Love, because this sense of ego-centeredness, this sense of isolationist, separatist, self-interested identity, is no longer present. Can we bring the awareness of Love into our lives?
A life free from this self-centeredness is a life where this awareness is present, but it is present when God is there. You will not find This. This is something that reveals itself when you become aware of your reactions within relationships, when you become aware of how you function. By becoming aware of this, you can discard this psychological condition of ego-centeredness; This requires the presence of attention on your reactions.
So, when you pay attention to these reactions. Here the question arises: what is Mindfulness? It is becoming aware of these reactions, in this instant, becoming aware of this sense of the present "I," of this "me," of this ego. Just looking at these reactions, the thought, the feeling, the emotion, the sensation, the perception, the way you deal with the other, becoming aware of this present self-image.
See, this has already become clear in psychology, but only in the theoretical, conceptual aspect. Here we are not interested in theories, in concepts, but in a direct vision of what this self-image represents. The end of this self-image is the emergence of something new. This self-image is the "I," the "me," the ego, the sense of someone present. The end of this condition is the Divine Truth showing itself, it is the Truth of God revealing itself.
So, one of the things we have been discussing with you here is this issue of Mindfulness. There is a lot of confusion in people's minds; for them, this issue of attention is a tool for some purpose, for some goal of improvement or betterment of the person, and that is not true. Becoming aware of your reactions, here, in this instant, in this moment, of a thought that arises, a feeling that arises, an emotion, a sensation, a perception, becoming aware of this image when it arises in this contact with him or her requires the presence of full attention, of a complete attention, that is Mindfulness.
And the presence of this Attention is not to improve the person. The Truth of this Attention is the discarding of this person, of this sense of "I." So, this purpose of a technique or practice of attention for the improvement of this "me," of this "I," does not apply - we are still faced with an illusion. Becoming aware of your reactions is the basis of Self-awareness, and when there is this approach to Self-awareness, there is the discarding of this self-image, of this "I." So, this is the approach to learning about Self-awareness.
In life, in these relations - relations with people, which we call relationships - we need the presence of Love, the presence of Truth. The Reality of these relations is, I repeat, Communion, where this sense of "person" completely loses its importance. We have a relation between human beings, between us, the relation with him or her, but no longer in this sense of "I," of this "me," of this ego, of this so-called "person."
This is what we are working on here with you, deepening here with you. The awareness of your Being is the Spiritual Awakening, it is the Awakening of God, it is the end of this movement, which is the movement of the "I," which is the movement of the ego, it is the end of this self-image.
So, the truth of these relationships is the presence of Grace, the Divine presence, the presence of God, where we no longer have this model of self-image, where we no longer have this model of thought, this condition where the sense of "I," of the ego, lives in its search for something. That is no longer there.
So, this is our work here with you. These meetings that we have here on the weekends, Saturday and Sunday, have this purpose. You can find our WhatsApp link here in the video description to participate in these online meetings. In addition, we have in-person meetings and also retreats. So, if this is something that makes sense to you, here is an invitation. Leave your "like," subscribe to the channel and leave here in the comments: "Yes, that makes sense." Ok? And we'll see you. Thanks for the meeting and see you soon!